My Journey

I don’t want to waste your time, I just want to help you, so here is how I have become more confident. Confidence is a skill, just like weight lifting, or running, or playing a game. The more you do it, the better you get at it. The more you talk to people, the more confident you become.

Everyday, start a conversation with someone random. If you are buying something, talk to the cashier. Even if it is quick, it still helps you. No one is born confident. There’s nothing special about you that is stopping you from being confident. If you want to be more confident, talk to more people. Just have a couple quick conversations with strangers. If you go into a store, say hi to the person at the counter, or say thank you if someone opens the door.

Once you’ve had these conversations, you realize that you don’t have to be afraid of talking to strangers, or talking in general. This makes you more confident. You realize that talking to someone you don’t know won’t kill you. You shouldn’t be afraid to talk to people, and you don’t have to be.

Thank you for reading, and I hope that this helps you. See you next time,

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